How to Create a Magical Holiday Tablescape That Wows Your Guests

The holiday season is the perfect time to gather loved ones around a beautifully set table. A well-designed tablescape not only sets the tone for your celebration but also adds an extra layer of magic to the experience. Whether you’re hosting an intimate family dinner, a festive Friendsgiving, or a glamorous holiday party, crafting a thoughtful and stylish tablescape can make all the difference.

As a luxury event designer, tablescaping enthusiast, and author of Festive Tables, I believe that the art of setting a table is all about layering and personalization. It’s an opportunity to set the mood, tell a story, and make guests feel welcomed and celebrated. A well-styled table is the foundation of any memorable celebration, and for me, it’s about curating an experience that caters to all five senses—touch, hearing, sight, smell, and taste.

Thanksgiving is one of my favorite times of year because it marks the beginning of holiday festivities and is a time to gather, give thanks, and indulge in each other's company. Setting the table is a cherished ritual, a chance to bring elegance and warmth to the celebration.

Photography by Syed Yaqeen | Food by Chef Greg Taylor | Design by Akeshi Akisneye (Kesh Events)

1. Choose a Theme or Color Palette

Start by deciding on a cohesive theme or color palette for your table. Traditional holiday colors like red, green, and gold are always festive, but don’t be afraid to think outside the box. Modern neutrals, icy blues, or jewel tones like emerald and ruby can bring a fresh, sophisticated twist to your tablescape.

2. Elevate with Seasonal Centerpieces

Your centerpiece is the focal point of your table, so make it count!

Ideas for Seasonal Centerpieces:

  • Classic Elegance: Use seasonal florals like roses, dahlias, or amaryllis in deep winter hues. Add greenery like eucalyptus or pine for texture.

  • Creative Twist: Style your centerpiece with fruits like pomegranates, oranges, or pears for a unique and organic look.

  • Candles: Incorporate taper candles in ornate holders or votives of varying heights to add a warm, festive glow.

3. Layer Your Table Linens

Layering adds depth and texture to your tablescape. Start with a tablecloth or runner that complements your theme, then add placemats or chargers for a polished look. Linen napkins tied with decorative rings or ribbons can add a touch of luxury.

4. Incorporate Personal Touches

Make your table memorable with personalized details:

  • Create name cards or mini place-setting gifts like ornaments or wrapped chocolates.

  • Use unique place card holders such as small pinecones, bows, or mini pumpkins.

5. Select the Right Tableware

Choose elegant dinnerware and glassware to complete your design. Metallic accents like gold-rimmed plates or crystal glasses add a touch of luxury. For flatware, consider using modern matte tones or timeless silver to tie everything together.

Photo: Collin Pierson

6. Setting the Ambiance with Candles

Candles are a must for ambiance! I love combining taper candles with votives to create a warm, layered glow. Mixing candle holders of varying heights adds a bit of drama, elegance, and visual interest making the table feel intimate and inviting, especially in the evening.

7. Floral Arrangements for Height and Depth

Flowers bring life, color, and beauty to the table. Use a combination of bud vases, medium-sized arrangements, and larger centerpieces for depth and texture. Seasonal flowers like dahlias or peonies work well depending on the season, and varying vase heights create a layered effect.

8. Finishing Touches with Personalized Accessories

Accessories like place cards, unique napkin rings, or small tokens for guests can make a big impact. These personalized details show thoughtfulness and attention to detail, turning a meal into an unforgettable experience.

By focusing on these elements and adding your personal style, you can create a tablescape that feels both elegant and welcoming. It’s about turning the table into a canvas, and each piece you add is a brushstroke that enhances the overall experience. A holiday tablescape is more than just decor—it’s an expression of love and effort for the people who gather around it.

✨ Cheers to celebrating life beautifully.

xx, Akeshi

For even more tablescape inspiration, explore The Art of Celebrating blog and grab your copy of Festive Tables—your ultimate guide to unforgettable celebrations.

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Akeshi Akinseye

Akeshi Akinseye is the founder and CEO of Kesh Events and is the leading expert in the wedding and event industry on all things celebrations.

She is widely regarded as One of the best Wedding planners in America by Brides, Top 5 wedding vendors in the world by WEDLUXE, top wedding planner in Chicago by PartySlate and more. 

Her insights and work have been featured in national publications like Brides, PartySlate, Modern Luxury Weddings, Inside Weddings, Yahoo, ESPN, New York Times etc and she appears regularly in media outlets like ABC, The Tribune and more.

She is the author of the best-selling book, The Art of Floral And Event Design” and founder and editor of celebrations and lifestyle magazine, The Art of Celebrating. Her creativity, keen eye, attention to detail and knack for perfection is what her clients love about her. She brings the art of creativity and personalization to every single event making her the best at what she does. Akeshi honors the individual styles of her clients and she continually strives to make every experience one to remember.

http://www.akeshiakinseye.com
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